Love is a very strong feeling of affection towards someone that you are romantically or sexually attracted to.While it's still new to the world of science,it has been proven that this deep affection grows deeper by day especially when you are both attracted to each other,unfortunately for some of us we don't even realize when we are falling in love or we mistake love from something else.It comes packaged with a load of feelings like always liking the idea of been around the person you love to even your heart beating faster whenever you are near them.Now,love is sweet but it gets extra amazing when you both understand each other perfectly because that is the main tool for love.Imagine a situation where you know exactly what to do when your partner is bored,tired,angry....is it not amazing?
Do you know your partners love language?
To many this is new and maybe after understanding this you are going to take your relationship to a higher level..According to a book by Garry Chapman in 1992,love language is simply the way we express love and expect love back.The language we speak when expressing love.It"s a good idea to make an appointment today with your love today and know each others love language.I did that with my fluffy sunshine and it"s working good for me.I mean who would't be happy to wake up in the morning and find a lovely text message from that one person you would die for?.The correct answer is not all of you because lave languages are different from one person to another.
The five lave languages are:
- words of affirmation
- Acts of service
- Physical touch
- Quality time
- Receiving gifts
Words of affirmation
if your love language or rather your best way of receiving love is words of affirmation,then you feel that your partner loves you when he/she says words of appreciation to you.You always expect either a compliment like "hey babe you look good today" or hey "thanks for the breakfast my love".When you realize that your partner best way of feeling loved is through words of affirmation,then make it your hobby to be doing so.It is also good to understand that people whose primary love language is this are more hurt through words and character assigned to them .Again don't make the mistake of assuming that your partner is beautiful or handsome,make a point of telling them because that what will make her/him feel loved.
Acts of service
How important is when your partner washes your car without even you realizing or waking up early to make you a cup of tea?.If your answer is that this is important to you then you probably feel loved when someone expresses your feeling to you through action.Learn to understand your partner because at times you might find that we don't even know our love languages but it's a process of learning.
Physical touch
Do you like when you are touched? I personally like touching.My hands will always reach out for you as long were together.I will even get angry when you don't hug me,ask my girlfriend.I don't care whether am in public or not,watching a movie,having a talk.It's just my thing but you will find people who scream when you touch them and if your find that your partner don't like when you are touching him/her,don't start suffocating yourself with crazy ideas that you are not loved,it's just that they are not like me.
Quality time
If quality time is your love language,then you feel loved when your partner is around you.But it is not just spending time together but also giving all your attention. Some might take advantage of this by giving an excuse of not being around because quality time is not your love language.As much as we understand our ways of expressing and receiving love,we should also understand that love again is not all about love languages,there is more.
Receiving gifts
The little things you may afford may be the way to show your partner that you love them.At times this is mistaken by being materialistic thought yes,materialistic people are there.So many people hold their memories in the gifts they are given.You might again be disappointed when you give gifts to your partner but he/she doesn't appreciate and if you were reading along you probably know the answer.
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This is why love languages are important to understand. Hope this was helpful,stay safe.
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